Wear Hats That Fit Just Right

Wear hats that fit just right Wear Hats That Fit Just Right

Most of us “wear a lot of hats,” in our lives.  We are many things to many people.  And that’s fine.  But what’s not fine is when we’re being something that’s all wrong for us … no matter how much someone else needs it.

Joyful Springers wear hats that fit just right.  They understand that trying to contort themselves into something that doesn’t fit isn’t going to help anyone in the long run.

Go ahead and wear all your different hats.  You can play many roles and do it authentically.  But when you’re doing something that feels awkward or stressful, check and make sure you’re not wearing a hat that is all wrong for you. You’ll do more good in the world when you have on a well-fitted hat.

[Ducky borrowed this hat off of a Christmas bear.  It has holes for the bear's ears that also work well for Springer ears.  We think it fits her perfectly. icon smile Wear Hats That Fit Just Right ]

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Get In Up To Your Armpits

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We often move through life a little too tentatively, afraid to go all out for fear of failure or rejection.

Joyful Springers get in up to their armpits.  They don’t tippy-toe through life.  They dive in and have fun without worry about what bad things could happen.

Are you holding yourself back from having a tail-wagging good time because you might look silly if you do or you might mess up?  Try letting go of the fears.  Follow your feel-good whims and have a great time.  You can never fail when you’re having fun.  And anyone who rejects a good time isn’t worth hanging around with anyway.

[River is back. Abby's 1 1/2 year old sweet girl discovered snow for the first time last winter, and she loves it!. icon smile Get In Up To Your Armpits ]

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Stick Your Nose In Sparkly Stories

Put your nose in sparkly stories Stick Your Nose In Sparkly StoriesWe tell and listen to a lot of “stories” in our lives.  We tell them about ourselves (who we are and what’s going on with us) and we hear them about others (from things we read and from people we talk to).  And we can choose what kind of stories we want to tell and hear.

Joyful Springers stick their noses in sparkly stories.  They choose to tell what’s good about themselves and their lives, and they choose to take in only the best of what they read or hear from others.

Whatever stories you’re focusing on are creating your life.  You’re living into the narratives you tell and hear.  So why would you want to tell sad stories, angry stories, or scary stories?  And why would you want to listen to them?  When you choose upbeat stories, you choose an upbeat life.

[As you can see from the photo, Ducky had a great time reading Nancy Lucas's and her Springer, Scout's, story, The Missing Boston Terriers of Smith Street. She also enjoyed having me read to her Nancy and Scout's latest book, A Ghostly Tail.

Ducky says both of Nancy and Scout’s books are clever and cute and funny and especially wonderful because the hero in the books is a Joyful Springer.  She loves the drawings in the books, which Nancy does herself.

I asked Ducky if she had any comments about A Ghostly Tail, and she said, “I’d be upset too if someone told me fluffy was stupid.  I’m excited by the idea of finding pizza on the ground.  I’m going to check the beach daily; maybe I’ll find some too.  I’ve never met any ghosts, but I do get communications from Muggins [Ducky’s predecessor].  She taught me how to roll on dead birds on the beach.  I think the story is fun.  Where else can you read about a ghost wolfhound, palmetto bugs, horrid purses, and a possum named Chisolm?”

Ducky’s review may be a little disjointed, but doesn’t it make you curious about the book?  icon wink Stick Your Nose In Sparkly Stories   You can find out more about both of Scout’s books and how to get a copy by clicking on the titles above.  Oh, and Ducky says she things hard copies of the books, which you can get at Amazon.com, would make nice stocking stuffers. And so would some nice smoked pork hide chews. icon smile Stick Your Nose In Sparkly Stories ]

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Goldilocks Your Life

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Sometimes, during the holidays, we try a little too hard.

Joyful Springers Goldilocks their lives.  They decide that whatever is going on is “just right,” instead of pushing for perfection.

You don’t need the perfect decorations or the perfect party or the perfect gift or the perfect cards or the perfect anything to have a wonderful time.  You can choose to believe that whatever you do and whatever you have is “just right.”  And when you do, it will be.

[Ruffles is back.  Her momma, Joan Howe says that though Ruffles doesn’t look all that happy in this photo, she was a good sport about it.  Joan worked hard at this photo.  She had to find 3 sizes of bears and different colors of bowls.  She died a floor mop yellow for “Goldilocks”’ hair.  Joan says, “Ruffles was my dog-agility dog, my close friend, and my subject of many photos (close friend comes first).”]

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Plow The Way

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Sometimes, when we have a lot to do, it can feel like we’re buried in deep snow

Joyful Springers plow the way.  They take one task at a time and push through them, one in front of the other, to get enough momentum to churn through even the longest “to do” list.

Feeling a little snowed in by your responsibilities?  Stop thinking about everything you have to do.  Just think about the next thing.  When you keep your attention and energy on the next thing, each thing you do will lead you to the next until you’ve blasted through your obligations and found the joy in your days.

[Snickers is back. Darlene Hoffman's handsome guy can plow his way through anything. icon smile Plow The Way ]

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Accept Riders

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It can be annoying when it feels like you’re carrying someone in your work or personal life.  But carrying others can actually serve you, as well as “hangers-on.”

Joyful Springers accept riders.  They understand that when they carry others, it makes them and their riders stronger.

The thing about hangers-on is they tend to hang harder and longer the more you resent them and try to throw them off.  When you carry others with grace, you give them the space and acceptance they need to eventually stand on their own two feet.

[Steeler and Rylan are back. Debbie's grandson, Rylan, clearly thinks Steeler is more horse than dog, and Steeler just as clearly has the patience to be whatever Rylan wants him to be. icon smile Accept Riders ]

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Have Nothing To Hide

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When you have something you want to keep from others, it’s usually one of two things; it’s something about yourself that you think doesn’t live up to others’ expectations OR it’s something you’re ashamed of.  No matter what your secrets are about, keeping them is often draining.

Joyful Springers have nothing to hide.  They live by two rules:  they don’t care what others think about their so-called shortcomings AND they make honorable choices so they never have need to be ashamed.

How much energy do you expend trying to keep secrets from family, friends, or coworkers?  Put that energy instead into living an honest life and letting yourself shine, in all your glorious imperfection.

[Poppy is back, and she's letting it all hang out.  This adorable Cocker Spaniel has nothing to hide. icon smile Have Nothing To Hide ]

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Add A Touch Of Diva

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Most of us only get dolled up on special occasions.  And we tend to think glitz and glam are for celebrities.

Joyful Springers add a touch of diva.  They know they’re stars even if they’re not famous, and they have a right to glam it up just for the fun of it.

Having a blah day?  How about getting decked out in some finery for no reason whatsoever?  It’s amazing what a spirit lift it is to put on something special.  Get in touch with your own star power today!

[Pump is back.  This North Carolina beauty is may have more than just a touch of diva in her.   icon smile Add A Touch Of Diva ]

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Be A Guardian Of What Matters

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We spend a lot of time and money protecting things in our lives.  And much of what we protect is important.  But we don’t always protect the right things.

Joyful Springers are guardians of what matters.  They know that protecting things like their waistlines or their bottom line isn’t nearly as important as protecting the real treasures in their lives–the ones they love.

How much time do you spend being a guardian of how people see you or how many pretty things you own?  If you’re going to be a protector, protect the most important thing in your life–your passions and your precious loved ones.

[Late at night, while we're waiting for her Daddy to get home, Ducky and I hang out in our bed; and we play with as many of her toys as she deems appropriate.  In this photo, she'd tired of playing and was ready for a snooze but she had to keep an eye on me to make sure I wasn't going to mess with any of her precious toys. icon smile Be A Guardian Of What Matters .]

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Ground Yourself

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British philosopher Alfred North Whitehead wrote,“The only use of a knowledge of the past is to equip us for the present. The present contains all that there is. It is holy ground; for it is the past, and it is the future.”

Joyful Springers ground themselves.  They understand that life is lived in “holy ground” of the present, and a constant focus on what’s done or what will be prevents them from allowing their irresistible essence to shine.

When you define yourself by what you’ve done or what might happen to you in the future, you can’t fully be yourself.  Be here now, in the sweet beauty of your truth.  This is where you’ll find all the joy you desire.

[Triscuit is back.  Joan Howe took this photo of her now 13 year old "independent" girl, the first day she and her husband brought Triscuit home.  Joan says that Triscuit was so timid that this was the only pose they could get out of her.  Later, this photo won 1st Place in a puppy photo contest and was on the cover of SPRINGER EXPRESS magazine in the Fall of 2000.  These days, Triscuit is an older girl with arthritis and hearing issues (although she can hear very well whenever food is involved).  She’s been through major surgery for Cushings' Disease and has had both ACLs done, but she’s still a happy girl. icon smile Ground Yourself ]

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